Monday, October 22, 2012
Braggin' on my Man
* Part 1 of a four-part series for the Marketplace Institute, Regent College, Vancouver, Canada.
* A book review of a collection of essays for Cardus, Canada.
* An essay, adapted from his public address in NZ recently, in Winter Selection 2012, Maxim Institute, Auckland, New Zealand. (This is what arrived in the mail. The essay link goes to Maxim's publications site but it wasn't available for upload just yet.)
Plus, you get to see an action shot! Now just add his beard. :o)
Here's the pic taken at ReFrame, before we left Vancouver. The Marketplace Institute is currently seeking funding to film the course for global distribution. You can see our friend, Mark, explain more here if you want to support this worthy project. They hope to have secured the necessary pledges by October 31st in order to start distribution by mid-2013. (Here endeth my shameless plug for them!)
Monday, October 8, 2012
Fire!
Back to the fire...
Wednesday, July 4, 2012
Independence Day and Rootedness
It was kind of funny that a Texan (C), a Canadian (J) and a Kiwi (Me) had to scramble around to find anything red, white, and/or blue to wear! There does seem to be a secret compartment in the closets/wardrobes of Americans that contain outfits for days such as this. We managed to score a couple of miniature flags to wave from a friendly parade organizer and joined some of N's classmates to watch the fun in the suburb of Lakewood. I think my favourite float was the kids playing (original, I think) rock songs on a big trailer - those tweens were talented! J enjoyed collecting candy (which I kept referring to as lollies) and C munched on his hat and flag (which cleared the way for the appearance of tooth #3 today). Some of the costumes were elaborate, the political buttons were big (election year here) and the classic cars were cool (or should that be hot?)
Afterwards we had a barbecue lunch with our friends, complete with octopus sprinkler in the back yard. C took a nap at last, J had a blast in the sprinkler (but wasn't so keen on the sand down his pants from the sandpit) and I had fun talking with everyone.
The holiday today celebrates 236 years of independence from British rule. Canada celebrated the birthday of their nation 145 years ago on Sunday (belated Happy Canada Day!) and New Zealand commemorated 172 years since the signing of the Treaty of Waitangi (between the indigenous Maori and the British Crown) on February 6th. In reflecting on these community markers of national identity I have been struck by how much we define ourselves by (or against) our history - our roots as nations, communities, families and individuals. It is from our understanding of the past, the values and virtues that were cultivated there and passed on, the stories that we retell and those we choose not to, that we define our present selves and move forward into the future. For those of us with faith, that identity is even more rich as we layer in the stories that have shaped our beliefs (and, hopefully, actions) too.
I have also been reflecting on these past weeks 'flying solo' most of the time in my role as parent while N has been away. (I am looking forward to redistributing the wife/mother balance again soon!) In reading a blog this week I was reminded that our role as parents is really to raise kids to be independent, and to let them leave. In teaching our boys to be independent, however, I believe we need to teach them how to 'be' with us - within the community of our family, neighbourhood(s), nations, world - in order that they might have healthy roots through which to draw strength and sustenance as their independent identies emerge and they leave the nest.
I left home when I married N at the ripe old age of 20. Now I realise how potentially scary this was for my parents! One of my favourite wedding presents was actually orchestrated by my mum in the weeks leading up to the wedding. Knowing we were setting up a brand new household, she gave me a box of goodies each week with a different theme. All those little things you need but don't realise you don't have them until you want them to hand immediately. I can't remember them all but some highlights include gift wrap and ribbons; a bucket of cleaning supplies; a box of stationery and office supplies; lightbulbs, super glue and other fixity stuff; and so on. It was like getting an elaborate Christmas stocking of independence every week! Essentially these gifts represented my parents' work teaching me not only to fly the nest but enabling me to soar (as an individual, and together with N in our marriage).
When I dream of what my boys may be like by the time they leave home I hope each of them can draw their identity from who they are in Christ, our family, communities and nations. (We've sure created some interesting scenarios by providing them with multiple passports!) I pray that they will be both independent and rooted. I hope they will share the wealth of their heritage, in all its glory and shortcomings, with those they know and love. And I hope I can let them soar too.
Monday, August 11, 2008
P.S. Food Course: Other Resources
- Babette's Feast
- Eat Drink Man Woman
- Big Night
- The New World
- Fiddler on the Roof
- Garbage
- The Future of Food
Children's Books
- Jam: A True Story - Margaret Mahy
- Whose Garden Is It? - Mary Ann Hoberman
- Mrs. Moskowitz and the Sabbath Candlesticks - Amy Schwartz
- Goops and How to Be Them - Gelett Burgess
- Mice Squeak, We Speak - Arnold Shapiro
- Stone Soup - various versions of this traditional tale
- An Angel For Solomon Singer - Cynthia Rylant and Peter Catalanotto
- A Bad Case of Stripes - David Shannon
- Blueberries For Sal - Robert McCloskey
- Little House in the Big Woods - Laura Ingalls Wilder (and other books in the series, especially Farmer Boy)
- Green Eggs and Ham - Dr. Seuss
- The High Rise Glorious Skittle Skat Roarious Sky Pie Angel Food Cake - Nancy Willard
- The Pipi Swing - Sarona Aiono-Iosefa
- Bread and Jam for Frances - Russell Hoban
Websites
Sunday, August 10, 2008
Food Course: Final Day
Friday, August 8, 2008
Food Course: The Hungry Soul
The conversation about geographic change focussed on the effects of urbanisation, changes in the size and nature of farms, and the change in how we use our homes (especially how zoning and consumerism 'feed' our lifestyles in the latter). We talked about how cultural changes are shown in the denial of real stages of life (e.g. in fashion, aging or anti-aging, tween culture), conformity to a prescribed beauty, and denial of classic sources of wisdom (family, place, and self are replaced with media influences). Familial change reflected the impact of households where both parents work, changes in food preparation and preservation, and children's schedules that rival their parents.
Some possible small steps we discussed were:
- refusing to buy into fads - thinking carefully before we buy/do things
- choosing to walk - a way of promoting community, exercise, safety, slowing down...
- reducing meat consumption - awareness of animal care issues, sourcing food resulting in intentionality, seasonal eating, meat flavour trumping size
- modelling healthy attitudes to food and our bodies - acknowledging that most people hunger for love, joy, acceptance and approval... and that churches ought to be places of healing in these areas too
Our mindful meal this evening was an Indian meal with a focus on our senses. We started by washing our hands.
The menu was:
This day also happened to be Mel's birthday, so the chocolate cake became a birthday cake...
complete with a hidden thimble - a la Nancy Willard's book, "The High Rise Glorious Skittle Skat Roarious Sky Pie Angel Food Cake" (illustrated by Richard Jesse Watson).
"Open your mouth and taste, open your eyes and see -- how good God is." Psalm 34:8
Monday, August 4, 2008
Food Course: Our Mindful Meal
REFRESHMENTS
Beer, Water, Wine
Beer: Matt’s kitchen (with transport via the ferry with Roxy)
Water: from the farm well
House Wine: from the Wilkinson’s cellar
APPETIZER
Spinach Dip in Bread Bowls with carrots and bread for dipping
Spinach: Matt’s garden (again, thanks to Roxy)
Bread: made right here
Other ingredients from Vancouver Island
MAIN COURSE
Lamb Stew with Dumplings, Garlicky Mashed Potatoes, and Green Beans
Lamb: Campbell’s Farm, Saturna Island
Beans: canned by the Wilkinsons last summer
Fresh Herbs: from the Wilkinson’s garden
Other ingredients from Vancouver Island
DESSERT
Topfencreme
Quark: from Foothills Creamery, Alberta, that makes European style cheeses
Other ingredients from Vancouver Island
We each wrote about why we had chosen these foods and how they represented our cultures, and included this information, along with a summary of Korean table etiquette, on our menu sheets. My ingredient was lamb so I wrote about NZ sheep farming and my grandparents' farm. Our table decorations were 'homestyle' too: bouquets of grass, driftwood to sit breadbowls and hot dishes on, and simple candles.
Everyone seemed to enjoy themselves. Matt's beer and his spinach dip were great (and I don't even like beer much!) There was enough lamb stew and dumplings for two dinners (Esther and I made it stretch a long way, based loosely on this recipe). Elly's green beans and mashed potatoes were gobbled up quickly. Claudia's topfencreme (see recipe below) was delicious. By far, the most difficult part of the evening was sticking to the Korean manners that Soohwan explained to us - but that made for a lot of laughter, learning and conversation.
TOPFENCREME
- 250g quark
- 250g whipped cream (250ml whipping cream)
- 500g vanilla yoghurt
- sugar
- mixed berries (fresh or frozen)
Defrost berries if necessary. Add sugar to berries to taste.
Mix quark and yoghurt until smooth. Fold in whipped cream. Add sugar to taste.
Serve cream mixture with berries drizzled over. (Leftovers... if there are any... make a nice topping for sweet pancakes or waffles.)
Serves 4.
Saturday, July 26, 2008
Food Course: Food For the Household
Food Course: Rest, Retreat and Worship
Food Course: Salt Spring Island
Our main destination was Salt Spring Seeds.
Thursday, July 24, 2008
Food Course: Day 2
Day 2 was entitled "Eating to Live / Living to Eat" and our lecture and discussion focussed on the flow from the biology... to ecology... to philosophy... and to theology of eating. We talked about the need to eat and how our bodies use food, especially about the misleading analogy of the body as a machine (machines burn fuel, while bodies are rebuilt by the food we consume). We discussed agriculture as a simplified form of a natural ecosystem, which in itself can also be a large threat to the natural ecosystem! The philosophical and theological discussions ended up melding into one discussion but I can't really sum it up in a sentence. We ranged far and wide!
The quote I chose for today was from Animal, Vegetable, Miracle by Barbara Kingsolver (page 10): “I used to take my children’s friends out to the garden to warm them up to the idea of eating vegetables, but this strategy sometimes backfired: they’d back away slowly saying, ‘Oh man, those things touched dirt!’”
Kingsolver's book was an easy, informative, and entertaining read. Her website continues the story from her book, which documents her family's move to a farm in the Appalachian countryside.
Wednesday, May 7, 2008
Food Course Intro
So far, we have had a busy time. Our general daily rhythm is lectures in the mornings and rest or chores in the afternoons. We have 50+ pages of reading for each class and some evenings we watch food related movies.
On Sunday night the class arrived at Galiano Island (rather late) and we had gingerbread for dessert and settled into our places of sleep. I am staying at the Fee/Martin house, about 7 minutes walk from the Wilkinson's farmhouse. It has a beautiful view of the water, looking out on Salt Spring Island.
Monday morning saw us consume crepes and multiple toppings for breakfast, before our first lecture in the Wilkinson's living room. Our scripture reading was from Luke, where Jesus invites his disciples for breakfast on the beach. We then introduced ourselves to the class, saying where we were from (before Regent) and why we had come to the course. It was amazing how diverse and how similar many of our answers were!
Mary Ruth then spoke about the main components of a meal: tongue, table, guests and grace. She read two children's books, An Angel for Solomon Singer and Mrs Moskowitz and the Sabbath Candlesticks, and based her lecture on our two readings (selections from Margaret Visser, The Rituals of Dinner, and Leon Kass, The Hungry Soul). It was interesting to see how aspects of a meal we take for granted are quite significant in "being human."
For lunch we had nettle soup (yes, some of the nettles we picked and prepared, Nath) and "biscuits" (scones). Then my group had a 'rest day' so I read and napped in the afternoon.
I picked my 'daily quote' from the required reading for our class anthology from Visser, page 14: "…(the Maori word tapu is the origin of our “taboo”)…" It formed part of a discussion of the etiquette of cannibalism amongst Maori and other cultural groups! I thought it was particularly interesting, given my understanding of tapu as holy, and its use for conserving resources in local areas.
Dinner was kedgeree. Yum! It was an opportunity to put some 'cultural context' around the food. I know kedgeree as a British breakfast dish, derived from India (when occupied by the British). This was confirmed by our two UK students, Debbie and Esther. I explained this to Soohwan, our Korean friend who has spent a lot of time in Bangladesh, and she laughed: "Kidgeree is a dish made from leftovers or the mash fed to babies! I've never had it with smoked fish."
After dinner there was a showing of a Danish film (with subtitles), Babette's Feast. It explored community, acceptance, gratitude, and generosity. A fine way to end our first day.